Beth Ditto on trying
Beth Ditto82 quotes“I just like food too much, and I don’t want to change. I spent so much of childhood trying to change, and I just got sick of it … I don’t want to look like Britney Spears, I just don’t want to. She’s hideous.”
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Growing up as a chubby kid with a ton of imaginary friends and a Cyndi Lauper obsession, I learned about rejection early on and was constantly trying to avoid it.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I have learned so much making first collection that I am excited to use all of it towards making the next one even better! It’s been an amazing learning curve and experience.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I’m 90% performer, 10% musician. I’ve always said that Gossip are a band I would go see, not a band I would listen to.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I was born fat and have always been, which was just fine and even healthy and cute until I turned ten or so. Puberty hit like a hurricane and brought a new set of rules. All of a sudden it was my fault I was chubby.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto When you see a fantastic colour or cut in a magazine, perched up on some famous so-and-so’s head, it’s tempting to ask your stylist for the same, but DO NOT BE FOOLED. The hair in those fancy photos can be very high maintenance.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto We all seek approval, and our mother’s seal is usually the most important. The nitty gritty is that we have to accept ourselves, even if it is just to be ready for the next cut-down. Mom’s blessing or not.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I never said I wanted to be a singer for the rest of my life.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto Someone told me once that Lucinda Williams takes six years between albums, and that’s what stuck to me; it’s like, you really are a factory. You don’t do things to make them, on your own time.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto With a stretch belt, anything can be a dress – a dinner napkin, a tablecloth, even a towel. Just wrap and snap, and away you go in an incredible outfit. Another plus is that the belt will pull all eyes to your lovely curves, and they even look good around a coat or a jacket.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I work really well under pressure but I really hate doing things on a timeframe.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto There is no rule in the pink-triangle guide to coming out that you must wear a rainbow flag cap and organise a full band parade.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I have a lot of feminist idols. My favorite thing about growing up in Arkansas – well, not favorite but something I’ve always felt grateful for – was that I really had to dig for what I could. There was no Internet. There wasn’t tons of feminist literature floating around.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto Sometimes love can mean letting go and loving each other from a distance. Maybe that’s what you’re feeling?
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I don’t have a good attention span and can’t spend long in record stores or video shops or games emporiums without getting grumpy.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto I really worshipped Mama Cass a lot. Mama Cass, who was really fat and she didn’t lose weight. Yeah, she went on diets but for the most part of her life and the better part of her career she was a big person.
Beth DittoBeth Ditto Even talking, I’m super-loud. I could never have that kind of meek, little wispy whimsical lavender and lace voice. It comes from my body. There’s no way I can fight it.
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Juana GarciaJuana Garcia Paper and pen petrify me, for they pierce right through me, drawing deep blue blood, leaving me utterly cold.
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It is not usually possible in a poem or a story to make the relationship between particular and universal fully explicit. Those who try to do so end up writing parables.
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John Maynard KeynesJohn Maynard Keynes You’ve got to try to find some type of mental edge on your opponent.
Derrick LewisDerrick Lewis I have fun out there on the court, smiling, laughing, trying to have good demeanor.
Stephen CurryStephen Curry Perhaps the only misplaced curiosity is that which persists in trying to find out here, on this side of death, what lies beyond the grave.
Sidonie Gabrielle ColetteSidonie Gabrielle Colette My ideal world is, we’re there, we’re in the EU, trying to make it better.
Boris JohnsonBoris Johnson To my inner child, I promise I am trying my best to heal from everything that hurt you. I promise I am trying to become the person you need me to be so we can both be whole.
Nikita GillNikita Gill The trap for an actor is that you become too successful at what you’re trying to do, and you can find yourself stuck there.
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