Boys and girls need chances to be around their father, to be enjoyed by him and if possible to do things with him. Better to play fifteen minutes enjoyably and then say, ‘Now I’m going to read my paper’ than to spend all day at the zoo crossly.
BENJAMIN SPOCKThe loving person makes other people feel good, and he is usually a happy person himself. He is able to form strong, long-lasting friendships.
More Benjamin Spock Quotes
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The more people have studied different methods of bringing up children the more they have come to the conclusion that what good mothers and fathers instinctively feel like doing for their babies is the best after all.
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It’s an ideal existence. Out in the open. Berating the president of he United States…
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Grandparents have the freedom to see their grandchildren uncritically.
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To win in Vietnam, we will have to exterminate a nation.
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Parental trust is extremely important in the guidance of adolescent children as they get further and further away from the direct supervision of their parents and teachers. I don’t mean that trust without clear guidance is enough, but guidance without trust is worthless.
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Happiness is mostly a by-product of doing what makes us feel fulfilled.
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I would say that the surest measure of a man’s or a woman’s maturity is the harmony, style, joy, and dignity he creates in his marriage, and the pleasure and inspiration he provides for his spouse.
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When women are encouraged to be competitive, too many of them become disagreeable.
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I really learned it all from mothers.
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Don’t worry about trying to do a perfect job. There is no perfect job. There is no one way of raising your children.
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Perhaps a child who is fussed over gets a feeling of destiny; he thinks he is the world for something important, and it gives him drive and confidence.
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The strongest rebellion may be expressed in quiet, undramatic behavior.
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Our greatest hope is to bring up children inspired by their opportunities for being helpful and loving.
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The child supplies the power but the parents have to do the steering.
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People have said, “You’ve turned your back on pediatrics.” I said, “No. It took me until I was in my 60s to realize that politics was a part of pediatrics.”
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