I would say that the surest measure of a man’s or a woman’s maturity is the harmony, style, joy, and dignity he creates in his marriage, and the pleasure and inspiration he provides for his spouse.
BENJAMIN SPOCKOur greatest hope is to bring up children inspired by their opportunities for being helpful and loving.
More Benjamin Spock Quotes
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To win in Vietnam, we will have to exterminate a nation.
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Don’t take too seriously all that the neighbors say. Don’t be overawed by what the experts say. Don’t be afraid to trust your own common sense.
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The loving person makes other people feel good, and he is usually a happy person himself. He is able to form strong, long-lasting friendships.
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The strongest rebellion may be expressed in quiet, undramatic behavior.
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It’s not the words but the music that counts.
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Respect children because they’re human beings and they deserve respect, and they’ll grow up to be better people.
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Grandparents have the freedom to see their grandchildren uncritically.
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In our country today, very few children are raised to believe that their principal destiny is to serve their family, their country, or God.
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Parental trust is extremely important in the guidance of adolescent children as they get further and further away from the direct supervision of their parents and teachers. I don’t mean that trust without clear guidance is enough, but guidance without trust is worthless.
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Don’t worry about trying to do a perfect job. There is no perfect job. There is no one way of raising your children.
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Happiness is mostly a by-product of doing what makes us feel fulfilled.
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All the time a person is a child he is both a child and learning to be a parent. After he becomes a parent he becomes predominantly a parent reliving childhood.
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I agree today that a man has no business trying to tell women what their characteristics are, which ones are inborn, which are more admirable, which will be best utilized by what occupations.
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What is the use of physicians like myself trying to help parents to bring up children healthy and happy, to have them killed in such numbers for a cause that is ignoble?
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When women are encouraged to be competitive, too many of them become disagreeable.
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