Ben Doller on comfort
Ben Doller7 quotes“Me and my wife had somehow finally reached a moment in which our lives made sense, in which we were comfortable in certain material ways, and in that very moment we were faced with a medical situation that could only really be resolved with death or time.”
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I think something many of us grapple with are those times we dread the practice of writing, no matter the project.
Ben DollerBen Doller Life versus Death, the absolute randomness of one’s position, privilege, and place, the lot one draws, and so on. It has made previously suspicious-seeming clichés seem more tolerable.
Ben DollerBen Doller Love may not be all you need, but it is certainly a necessity. My desire to survive has been exponentially magnified by the fact that there is someone intimately tangled up in me who would be left alone with the world.
Ben DollerBen Doller Me and my wife were interested in avoiding style, in eliminating voice, in getting away from the poetry logics, textures, and propulsions that we normally employ in our writing. But we arrived at even this organically and separately.
Ben DollerBen Doller The illness has only made certain ambivalences I’d always been conscious of that much more acute.
Ben DollerBen Doller Suddenly we had become these people who didn’t drink anything but kale, who ended many of our conversations with tears, and for whom no future was guaranteed. It was kind of funny.
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Alma-May NoaAlma-May Noa No one else is on your path so why should their limits be?
Elezabeth SymondElezabeth Symond I heard many tongues in many languages saying that people cannot be Gods, and that’s a given. But what if people don’t know what was given to them?
Nikol MejdnNikol Mejdn Pride – it screams a lot louder than love sometimes.
L.T. PhoenixL.T. Phoenix Messed up people even see the beauty in all the shitty places.
Lara-LeanLara-Lean I loved you more than love was allowed.
Lang LeavLang Leav Don’t mistake your discovery for the absence of yourself.
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It is a great comfort to a rambling people to know that somewhere there is a permanent home–perhaps it is the most final of the comforts they ever really know.
Ben RobertsonBen Robertson We can take full comfort in realizing the continuing strength of our nation. Americas lands remain radiantly rich with diversity, and freedom still reigns.
Ben NelsonBen Nelson Could one live on the sense of beauty alone, exempt from the necessity of ‘creature comforts,’ a sea-voyage would be delightful.
Bayard TaylorBayard Taylor It is only when You really STEP OUT of Your comfort zone that You GROW.
Bear GryllsBear Grylls Art should comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable.
BanksyBanksy Nothing so comforts the military mind as the maxim of a great but dead general.
Barbara TuchmanBarbara Tuchman And I really do believe that the most important thing is the way you live your life on earth. But I think it’s enormously comforting to believe that you’re going to see your loved ones.
Barbara WaltersBarbara Walters When things get really bad, you take comfort in the placeness of a place.
Banana YoshimotoBanana Yoshimoto
