Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
BELL HOOKSI feel that my environment reflects my belief in the grace and art and elegance of living simply.
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All our silences in the face of racist assault are acts of complicity.
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The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.
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Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.
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I feel that my environment reflects my belief in the grace and art and elegance of living simply.
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Since loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other and it takes time to know each other.
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I believe that it is impossible for two individuals not committed to their own and each other’s well being to sustain a healthy and enduring relationship.
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All the men I fall for seem to have a commitment problem.
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When we drop fear, we can draw nearer to people, we can draw nearer to the earth, we can draw nearer to all the heavenly creatures that surround us.
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If any female feels she need anything beyond herself to legitimate and validate her existence, she is already giving away her power to be self-defining, her agency.
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If we give our children sound self-love, they will be able to deal with whatever life puts before them.
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To know love we have to invest time and commitment.
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It’s in the act of having to do things that you don’t want to that you learn something about moving past the self. Past the ego.
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To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships, not just romantic bonds.
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If we want a beloved community, we must stand for justice.
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Justice demands integrity. It’s to have a moral universe – not only know what is right or wrong but to put things in perspective, weigh things. Justice is different from violence and retribution; it requires complex accounting.
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