It’s in the act of having to do things that you don’t want to that you learn something about moving past the self. Past the ego.
BELL HOOKSSince loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other and it takes time to know each other.
More Bell Hooks Quotes
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When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.
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Life-transforming ideas have always come to me through books.
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There is no life to be found in violence. Every act of violence brings us closer to death.
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Death is with you all the time; you get deeper in it as you move towards it, but it’s not unfamiliar to you. It’s always been there, so what becomes unfamiliar to you when you pass away from the moment is really life.
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Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
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To know love we have to invest time and commitment.
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All the men I fall for seem to have a commitment problem.
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Love is a combination of care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect and trust.
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Justice demands integrity. It’s to have a moral universe – not only know what is right or wrong but to put things in perspective, weigh things. Justice is different from violence and retribution; it requires complex accounting.
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Once you do away with the idea of people as fixed, static entities, then you see that people can change, and there is hope.
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To be truly visionary we have to root our imagination in our concrete reality while simultaneously imagining possibilities beyond that reality.
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What we cannot imagine cannot come into being.
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I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love.
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I believe that it is impossible for two individuals not committed to their own and each other’s well being to sustain a healthy and enduring relationship.
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Whenever women struggle with breast cancer and face better care than ever, that’s feminism.
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