If you do not know what you feel, then it is difficult to choose love; it is better to fall. Then you do not have to be responsible for your actions.
BELL HOOKSGiving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
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Death is with you all the time; you get deeper in it as you move towards it, but it’s not unfamiliar to you. It’s always been there, so what becomes unfamiliar to you when you pass away from the moment is really life.
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To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships, not just romantic bonds.
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The people I love, I’m committed to loving for the rest of my life.
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When we choose to love, we choose to move against fear, against alienation and separation. The choice to love is a choice to connect, to find ourselves in the other.
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The rage of the oppressed is never the same as the rage of the privileged.
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My idea of a delicious time is to read a book that is wonderful. But the ruling passion of my life is being a seeker after truth and the divine.
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Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
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There will be no mass-based feminist movement as long as feminist ideas are understood only by a well-educated few.
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Forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be transformed?
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I will not have my life narrowed down. I will not bow down to somebody else’s whim or to someone else’s ignorance.
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Whenever women struggle with breast cancer and face better care than ever, that’s feminism.
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Genuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified.
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Since loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other and it takes time to know each other.
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Love is an action, never simply a feeling.
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No black woman writer in this culture can write “too much”. Indeed, no woman writer can write “too much”. No woman has ever written enough.
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