Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.
BELL HOOKSKnowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.
BELL HOOKSI will not have my life narrowed down. I will not bow down to somebody else’s whim or to someone else’s ignorance.
BELL HOOKSLife-transforming ideas have always come to me through books.
BELL HOOKSIt’s in the act of having to do things that you don’t want to that you learn something about moving past the self. Past the ego.
BELL HOOKSNo black woman writer in this culture can write “too much”. Indeed, no woman writer can write “too much”. No woman has ever written enough.
BELL HOOKSOnce you do away with the idea of people as fixed, static entities, then you see that people can change, and there is hope.
BELL HOOKSI think life experiences are different for people who know what they want as children.
BELL HOOKSClass is more than money. Class is also about knowledge.
BELL HOOKSThe rage of the oppressed is never the same as the rage of the privileged.
BELL HOOKSForgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be transformed?
BELL HOOKSYou can only realize change if you live simply. Once people want enormous excess, you can hardly do social change.
BELL HOOKSThe people I love, I’m committed to loving for the rest of my life.
BELL HOOKSPatriarchy has no gender.
BELL HOOKSIf we want a beloved community, we must stand for justice.
BELL HOOKSA major part of love is commitment. If we are committed to someone, if I’m committed to loving you, then it’s not possible for me to fall out of love.
BELL HOOKSWhat we do is more important than what we say or what we say we believe.
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