I so enjoy being old because for the first time I don’t have to do anything-work, teach, study. I feel very good about myself-and at my age I can say no to anything now if I don’t want to do it. What a liberating word.
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Bel Kaufman35 quotes“I so enjoy being old because for the first time I don’t have to do anything-work, teach, study. I feel very good about myself-and at my age I can say no to anything now if I don’t want to do it. What a liberating word.”
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Learning is a process of mutual discovery for teacher and pupil. Keep an open mind to their unexpected responses.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman I feel no different than I felt at 99, 98 or 97. Just because you live a long time, you get all this attention. Just because you survived? Of course, I survived a lot.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman A teacher is frequently the only adult in the pupil’s environment who treats him with respect.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman Never mind the cream; it will always rise to the top. It’s the skim milk that needs good teachers.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman One of my students had written wistfully of a dream-school that would have “windows with trees in them.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman I like the word OLD. Not senior, that’s for proms. Older? Older than whom? ‘Old’ is honorable and ripe
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman Teachers try to make us feel lower than themselves, maybe because this is because they feel lower than outside people. One teacher told me to get out of the room and never come back, which I did.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman My mother, for example, has the pleasant notion that my day consists of nodding graciously to the rustle of starched curtsies and a chorus of respectful voices bidding me good morning.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman To the young, cliches seem freshly minted.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman You can’t laugh and be angry, you can’t laugh and feel sad, you can’t laugh and feel envious.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman I’ll never retire as long as I live—that’s like retiring from life! I’ll never stop writing, teaching, lecturing. If you’re in good health, living is exciting on its own.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman The preciousness of every moment is emphasized with every tick of the clock. Isn’t it a magnificent day today?
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman I suggest just Good and Bad at the end of the term on report cards. Or maybe nothing. Frank Allen
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman I am writing this during my lunch period, because I need to reach towards the outside world of sanity, because I am overwhelmed by the sheer weight of the clerical work still to be done, and because at this hour of the morning normal ladies are still sleeping.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman To the outside world, of course, this job is a cinch: 9 to 3, five days a week, two months’ summer vacation with pay, all legal holidays, prestige and respect.
Bel KaufmanBel Kaufman Time collapses and expands like an erratic accordion.
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