We humans have the capacity to wreak horrors on each other. But we also have the capacity to survive those horrors.
BARRY LYGASee, forgiveness doesn’t happen all at once. It’s not an event – it’s a process.
More Barry Lyga Quotes
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Josh Mendel has a secret. Unfortunately, everyone knows what it is.
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It’s a good day when a goddess gets on the school-bus with you.
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Maybe Rachel was right all along. Maybe the past is past, history is history, and you just push it aside and look for the future.
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It just means that if someone hates you, they still have feelings for you. If they really didn’t care about you, they’d just forget about you. They wouldn’t even waste the time hating you.
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. . . but there’s a restraining order in place.’ She speaks slowly, choosing her words carefully. ‘I’m not supposed to be this close to you.’ You were never supposed to be this close to me,’ I say, and I have no idea why.
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It’s not an easy choice, but that’s OK. Easy doesn’t equal good. Difficulty doesn’t equal bad. It’s just life, is all.
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Anger and hatred, when left unfed, bleed away like air from a punctured tire, over time and days and years. Forgiveness is stealth.
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Yes, pain meant life. But the symmetric property did not apply; Life did not mean pain.
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One time you told me that the opposite of love isn’t hate. And I didn’t understand that, but I think I do know. Because if you hate someone, you most still care, right? You have to care a little bit; otherwise you would just ignore them and forget they even live. Or lived.
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What was the opposite of linkage blindness? What described being certain of something without any kind of evidence?…The term was faith.
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Look, my dad has a saying – we’ll burn that bridge when get to it. OK? You get it? Worry about tomorrow, tomorrow.
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I suddenly realize that I’m naked, which shouldn’t bother me since it’s the phone, but for some reason it does. “How’s it hanging?” Kyra asks and now I think I’m blushing. It’s just an expression, but jeez!
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You don’t break up with someone just because of an argument, Josh. At least, I don’t.
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The best revenge is living well, my dad told me once.
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I’m a complicated man, with complicated taste buds.
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