Barbara Sher on appreciation
Barbara Sher62 quotes“Down deep we really know our worth, but we don’t have easy access to that knowledge. We need to hear praise coming from outside ourselves or we won’t remember that we deserve it.”
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Everyone has unique gifts and talents. What you love is what you’re gifted at. To be completely happy, to live a completely fulfilled life, you have to do what you love.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher Doing your own thing is a generous act. Being gifted creates obligations, which means you owe the world your best effort at the work you love. You too are a natural resource.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher Resentment is weak and lowers your self-esteem.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher Find what you love, because greatness is based on great gifts. If you love something, you can count on the fact that you are genetically gifted at it.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher You cannot tell your heart what it wants. Your heart will tell you
Barbara SherBarbara Sher Unkind criticism is never part of a meaningful critique of you. Its purpose is not to teach or to help, its purpose is to punish.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher When you play it too safe, you’re taking the biggest risk of your life. Time is the only wealth we’re given.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher The amount of good luck coming your way depends on your willingness to act.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher Sometimes life isn’t about who you were or are, but it’s about who you are becoming.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher And our dreams are who we are.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher We all need to learn a new language for love – a language that speaks not in socks, pancakes, and paychecks, but in shared fascination with physics or poetry, delight in each other’s uniqueness, and mutual practical and emotional support.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher Whatever your dreams are, start taking them very, very seriously.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher Real obstacles don’t take you in circles. They can be overcome. Invented ones are like a maze.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher Action helps you think and raises your self-esteem. Good luck happens when you’re in action. Ask yourself, “Does this go toward or away from what I want?” There’s an animal in us, and it has great instincts. Scan for a desire and follow it. Set a goal, any goal, and start doing everything you can think of to achieve it.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher You don’t have to get it right the first time.
Barbara SherBarbara Sher When you start using senses you’ve neglected, your reward is to see the world with completely fresh eyes.
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You’re an intelligent person of great moral character who has taken a very courageous stand. I’m an intelligent person with no moral character at all, so I’m in an ideal position to appreciate it.
Joseph HellerJoseph Heller Be nice to everyone, always smile, and appreciate things because it could all be gone tomorrow.
Ed SheeranEd Sheeran A person does not struggle except for what he loves and only loves what is free of appreciation and respect.
Adolf HitlerAdolf Hitler He didn’t appreciate my light until he knew how dark it can get after the sun has set.
CindyCindy The art to breathe and smile despite the pressure of anxiety, takes courage and power, keep appreciating yourself.
Dr. Zainab AnsariDr. Zainab Ansari He’s fully committed to appreciating his body with all its flaws and imperfections, more and more every day.
Anand ThakurAnand Thakur If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
Tutu DesmondTutu Desmond We’re so busy trying to move on and living our lives, that we sometimes forget to appreciate how far we’ve come, how well our wounds healed, and that somewhere along the journey, we’ve learned to let go.
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