Even feigning surprise, pretending it was unexpected and saying a ritual thanks, is surely wiser than just expecting everything so carelessly.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERPeople ask without wanting to know.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Prayer had always struck me as more or less a glorified attempt at a business transaction.
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High fashion has the shelf life of potato salad. And when past its prime, it is similarly deadly.
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I had decided early on that if I couldn’t dress elegant, I’d dress memorable.
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In the long run, most of us spend about fifteen minutes total in the entanglements of passion, and the rest of our days looking back on it, humming the tune.
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I’m not pretending to be ingenuous; I know what I’m doing.
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It’s a funny thing: people often ask how I discipline myself to write. I can’t begin to understand the question. For me, the discipline is turning off the computer and leaving my desk to do something else.
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I do my best work if I think about what it is I have to offer.
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A writer’s occupational hazard: I think of eavesdropping as minding my business.
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Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
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We’re animals. We’re born like every other mammal and we live our whole lives around disguised animal thoughts.
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Memory is a complicated thing, a relative to truth, but not its twin.
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It’s one thing to carry your life wherever you go. Another thing to always go looking for it somewhere else.
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Stop a minute, right where you are. Relax your shoulders, shake your head and spine like a dog shaking off cold water. Tell that imperious voice in your head to be still.
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It kills you to see them grow up. But I guess it would kill you quicker if they didn’t.
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Given my own circumstances, I find that anything can turn out to belong nearly anywhere.
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