There is no point treating a depressed person as though she were just feeling sad, saying, ‘There now, hang on, you’ll get over it.’ Sadness is more or less like a head cold- with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
BARBARA KINGSOLVERCooking is 80 percent confidence, a skill best acquired starting from when the apron strings wrap around you twice.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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Stop a minute, right where you are. Relax your shoulders, shake your head and spine like a dog shaking off cold water. Tell that imperious voice in your head to be still.
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Given my own circumstances, I find that anything can turn out to belong nearly anywhere.
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Silence has many advantages…I write and draw in my notebook and I read anything I please.
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You never knew which split second might be the zigzag bolt dividing all that went before from the everything that comes next.
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Anybody can get worked up, if they have the intention. It’s peacefulness that is hard to come by on purpose.
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There were two things about Mama. One is she always expected the best out of me. And the other is that then no matter what I did, whatever I came home with, she acted like it was the moon I had just hung up in the sky and plugged in all the stars. Like I was that good.
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I learned to write by reading the kind of books I wished I’d written.
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Close the door. Write with no one looking over your shoulder. Don’t try to figure out what other people want to hear from you; figure out what you have to say. It’s the one and only thing you have to offer.
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To think is not always to see.
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The thing is, it’s my own fault. I just can’t put up with a person that won’t go out of his way for me. And that’s what a man is. Somebody that won’t go out of his way for you. I bet it says that in the dictionary.
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Hope is a renewable option: If you run out of it at the end of the day, you get to start over in the morning.
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Every life is different because you passed this way and touched history… Listen being dead is not worse than being alive. It is different though. You could say the view is larger.
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The loudest sound on earth, she thought, is a man with nothing to do.
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Memories do not always soften with time; some grow edges like knives.
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There was a roaring in my ears and I lost track of what they were saying. I believe it was the physical manifestation of unbearable grief.
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