It kills you to see them grow up. But I guess it would kill you quicker if they didn’t.
BARBARA KINGSOLVEREmpathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own.
More Barbara Kingsolver Quotes
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I’m not pretending to be ingenuous; I know what I’m doing.
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A person could spend most of a lifetime in retrospective terror, thinking of all the things one nearly didn’t do.
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Humans can be fairly ridiculous animals.
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You never knew which split second might be the zigzag bolt dividing all that went before from the everything that comes next.
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Value is not made of money, but a tender balance of expectation and longing.
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Now I’m starting to think he wasn’t supposed to be my whole life, he was just this doorway to me.
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You can be as earnest and ridiculous as you need to be, if you don’t attempt it in isolation. The ridiculously earnest are known to travel in groups. And they are known to change the world.
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As long as I kept moving, my grief streamed out behind me like a swimmer’s long hair in water. I knew the weight was there but it didn’t touch me. Only when I stopped did the slick, dark stuff of it come floating around my face, catching my arms and throat till I began to drown. So I just didn’t stop.
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I’m of a fearsome mind to throw my arms around every living librarian who crosses my path, on behalf of the souls they never knew they saved.
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Recall that whatever lofty things you might accomplish today, you will do them only because you first ate something that grew out of the dirt.
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What you lose in blindness is the space around you, the place where you are, and without that you might not exist. You could be nowhere at all.
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You know things are bad when a woman without any legs and who recently lost two of her own kids feels sorry for you.
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Literature sucks you into another psyche. So the creation of empathy necessarily influences how you’ll behave to other people.
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I personally am inclined to approach [housework] the way governments treat dissent: ignore it until it revolts.
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A good title holds magic, some cognitive dissonance, a little grit between the teeth, but above all it is the jumping-off place into wonder.
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