Vengeance is not the point: change is.
BARBARA DEMINGA liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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We cannot live without our lives
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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