The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
BARBARA DEMINGA liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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