People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
BARBARA DEMINGA liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Our own pulse beats in every stranger’s throat.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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We cannot live without our lives
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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