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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.

Barbara Deming

People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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Attack Need People Rationalization
Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Fear First Thinking
The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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Diversity Peace Real
Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Men Moving Tactic
We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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Balance Believe Name
I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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Always Deep Judgment Obiient Sense
What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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Lying Peace Thinking
To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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Need Speak Violent
Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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Effectiveness Peace Wife
Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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Change Mind People
A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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Liberation Movement Strength
The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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Destroying Emotion Giving
Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Break Punishment Spirit
The free man must be born before freedom can be won, and the brotherly man must be born before full brotherhood can be won. It will come into being only if we build it out of our very muscle and bone – by trying to act it out.
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Being Brotherhood Free Men
It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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Able Antagonist Gains Real
Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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Another Courage Nerve Surely

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