This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
BARBARA DEMINGNonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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