Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
BARBARA DEMINGWe cannot live without our lives
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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We cannot live without our lives
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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