Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
BARBARA DEMINGWe cannot live without our lives
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try – by punishing the troublesome – to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.
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