Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one’s fears.
BARBARA DEMINGWe cannot live without our lives
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist – if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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