After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.
BARBARA DEMINGA great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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The longer we listen to one another – with real attention – the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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To resort to power one need not be violent, and to speak to conscience one need not be meek.
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We cannot live without our lives
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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There should be no censorship of mail.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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