A liberation movement that is nonviolent sets the oppressor free as well as the oppressed.
BARBARA DEMINGA great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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A great many of us must move from words to acts – from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.
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Vengeance is not the point; change is. But the trouble is that in most people’s minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.
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Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
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The point is to change one’s life. The point is not to give some vent to the emotions that have been destroying one; the point is so to act that one can master them now.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.
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We learn best to listen to our own voices if we are listening at the same time to other women-whose stories, for all our differences, turn out, if we listen well, to be our stories also.
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other – in balance with it… The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.
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Our task, of course, is to transmute the anger that is affliction into the anger that is determination to bring about change. I think, in fact, that one could give that as a definition of revolution.
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