Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.
BARBARA DEMINGIt is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
More Barbara Deming Quotes
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Surely all of us are nerved by one another, catch courage from one another.
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Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.
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I learned always to trust my own deep sense of what I should do, and not just obediently trust the judgment of others – even others better than I am.
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This is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
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Punishment cannot heal spirits, can only break them.
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It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
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there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one’s whole being in the determination: this must change.
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Let me be really here, here in this place and this time where I am.
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We cannot live without our lives
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Vengeance is not the point: change is.
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The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.
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All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.
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People may find it more comfortable to listen to us if we equivocate, but in the long run only words that discomfort them are going to change our situation.
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Gandhi once declared that it was his wife who unwittingly taught him the effectiveness of nonviolence. Who better than women should know that battles can be won without resort to physical strength? Who better than we should know all the power that resides in noncooperation?
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What is the revolution that we need? We need to dissolve the lie that some people have a right to think of other people as their property. And we need at last to form a circle that includes us all, in which all of us are seen as equal… We do not belong to the other, but our lives are linked; we belong in a circle of others.
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