No matter where you are, you’re always a bit on your own, always an outsider.
BANANA YOSHIMOTOI realized that the world did not exist for my benefit. It followed that the ratio of pleasant and unpleasant things around me would not change. It wasn’t up to me. It was clear that the best thing to do was to adopt a sort of muddled cheerfulness.
More Banana Yoshimoto Quotes
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I love feeling the rhythm of other people’s lives. It’s like traveling.
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This is what it means to be loved… when someone wants to touch you, to be tender.
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Again and again I will suffer; again and again I will get back on my feet. I will not be defeated.
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The place I like best in this world is the kitchen. No matter where it is, no matter what kind, if it’s a kitchen, if it’s a place where they make food, it’s fine with me. Ideally it should be well broken in. Lots of tea towels, dry and immaculate. Where tile catching the light (ting! Ting!)” (p. 3).
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Her eyes were those of someone who’s just fallen in love, someone who sees nothing but her lover, someone who has no fear of anything. The eyes of someone who believes that every dream will come true, that reality will move if you just give it a push.
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Once you’ve recognized your own limits, you’ve raised yourself to a higher level of being, since you’re closer to the real you.
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That’s the advantage of insomnia. People who go to be early always complain that the night is too short, but for those of us who stay up all night, it can feel as long as a lifetime. You get a lot done
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To the extent that I had come to understand that despair does not necessarily result in annihilation, that one can go on as usual in spite of it, I had become hardened. Was this what it means to be an adult, to live with ugly ambiguities? I didn’t like it, but it made it easier to go on.
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Why is it that everything I eat when I’m with you is so delicious?’ I laughed. ‘Could it be that you’re satisfying hunger and lust at the same time?
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Someday, without fail, everyone will disappear, scattered into the blackness of time.
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If you don’t say what you’re thinking, you end up lying when you really need to speak up.
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No matter what, I want to continue living with the awareness that I will die. Without that, I am not alive.
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I spent most of my time thinking, because I didn’t have enough energy to do anything else.
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I never tell my boyfriend that I’m busy when I’m not. No matter how effective they are, cheap techniques like that just don’t agree with me. So it’s always okay, it’s always all right. In my opinion the surest way to hook a man is to be as open with him as possible.
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In the uncertain ebb and flow of time and emotions much of one’s life history is etched in the senses.
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