I wonder what it felt to move to a country where you didn’t grow up. I had thought about that often since my sister got married. Do you become a character in a story native to that land, or do you, somewhere in your heart, want to return to your homeland.
BANANA YOSHIMOTOOnce you’ve recognized your own limits, you’ve raised yourself to a higher level of being, since you’re closer to the real you.
More Banana Yoshimoto Quotes
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Truly happy memories always live on, shining. Over time, one by one, they come back to life.
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She was still there inside me now, just as she always was: a life put on hold, a memory I didn’t know how to handle.
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Things look different depending on your perspective. As I see it, fighting to bridge those gaps isn’t what really matters. The most important thing is to know them inside and out, as differences, and to understand why certain people are the way they are.
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Good tea is eloquent enough, it turns out, to change a person’s mind.
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Fate is a ladder on which you cannot afford to miss a single rung. To skip out on even one step would mean you’ll never make it to the top.
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To the extent that I had come to understand that despair does not necessarily result in annihilation, that one can go on as usual in spite of it, I had become hardened. Was this what it means to be an adult, to live with ugly ambiguities? I didn’t like it, but it made it easier to go on.
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I held the feeling in my heart; the urge to discuss it died out. There was all the time in the world. In the endless repetition of other nights, other mornings, this moment, too, might become a dream.
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Again and again I will suffer; again and again I will get back on my feet. I will not be defeated.
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As I grow older, much older, I will experience many things, and I will hit rock bottom again and again. Again and again I will suffer; again and again I will get back on my feet. I will not be defeated. I won’t let my spirit be destroyed.
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I saw the sky and sea and sand and the flickering flames of the bonfire through my tears. All at once, it rushed into my head with tremendous speed, and made me feel dizzy. It was beautiful. Everything that happened was shockingly beautiful, enough to make you crazy.
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Recognizing how totally ignorant you are is the only honest way to deal with people who’ve been through something traumatic.
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Why is it that everything I eat when I’m with you is so delicious?’ I laughed. ‘Could it be that you’re satisfying hunger and lust at the same time?
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Nothing exists in this world but me and my bed…” (p. 141).
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This is what it means to be loved… when someone wants to touch you, to be tender.
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If you don’t say what you’re thinking, you end up lying when you really need to speak up.
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