I never tell my boyfriend that I’m busy when I’m not. No matter how effective they are, cheap techniques like that just don’t agree with me. So it’s always okay, it’s always all right. In my opinion the surest way to hook a man is to be as open with him as possible.
BANANA YOSHIMOTOIn the uncertain ebb and flow of time and emotions much of one’s life history is etched in the senses.
More Banana Yoshimoto Quotes
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The sky was incredibly far away, and beautiful enough to make a person wonder why our hearts are never so free.
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Love is the kind of thing that’s already happening by the time you notice it, that’s how it works, and no matter how old you get, that doesn’t change. Except that you can break it up into two entirely distinct types — love where there’s an end in sight and love where there isn’t.
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This world of ours is piled high with farewells and goodbyes of so many different kinds, like the evening sky renewing itself again and again from one instant to the next-and I didn’t want to forget a single one.
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If you don’t say what you’re thinking, you end up lying when you really need to speak up.
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Over and over, we begin again.
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What was important wasn’t the fireworks, it was that we were together this evening, together in this place, looking up into the sky at the same time.
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No matter where you are, you’re always a bit on your own, always an outsider.
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Once you’ve recognized your own limits, you’ve raised yourself to a higher level of being, since you’re closer to the real you.
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Recognizing how totally ignorant you are is the only honest way to deal with people who’ve been through something traumatic.
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This is what it means to be loved… when someone wants to touch you, to be tender.
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Even when I try to stir myself up, I just get irritated because I can’t make anything come out. And in the middle of the night I lie here thinking about all this. If I don’t get back on track somehow, I’m dead, that’s the sense I get. There isn’t a single strong emotion inside me.
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Was that what it means to be an adult, to live with ugly ambiguities?
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When was it I realized that, on this truly dark and solitary path we all walk, the only way we can light is our own? Although I was raised with love, I was always lonely. Someday, without fail, everyone will disappear, scattered into the blackness of time.
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It was so gorgeous it almost felt like sadness.
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I love feeling the rhythm of other people’s lives. It’s like traveling.
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