Everyone lives the way she knows best. What I mean by ‘their happiness’ is living a life untouched as much as possible by the knowledge that we are really, all of us, alone. That’s not a bad thing.
BANANA YOSHIMOTOSometimes people put up walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.
More Banana Yoshimoto Quotes
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When things get really bad, you take comfort in the placeness of a place.
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I spent most of my time thinking, because I didn’t have enough energy to do anything else.
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Good tea is eloquent enough, it turns out, to change a person’s mind.
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Was that what it means to be an adult, to live with ugly ambiguities?
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Everything that had happened was shockingly beautiful, enough to make you crazy.
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Sometimes people put up walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.
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In the uncertain ebb and flow of time and emotions much of one’s life history is etched in the senses.
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If you don’t say what you’re thinking, you end up lying when you really need to speak up.
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Me, when I’m utterly exhausted by it all, when my skin breaks out, on those lonely evenings when I call my friends again and again and nobody’s home, then I despise my own life – my birth, my upbringing, everything.
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The place I like best in this world is the kitchen. No matter where it is, no matter what kind, if it’s a kitchen, if it’s a place where they make food, it’s fine with me. Ideally it should be well broken in. Lots of tea towels, dry and immaculate. Where tile catching the light (ting! Ting!)” (p. 3).
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Why were we so far apart, even when we were together? It was a nice loneliness, like the sensation of washing your face in cold water.
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Why is it that everything I eat when I’m with you is so delicious?’ I laughed. ‘Could it be that you’re satisfying hunger and lust at the same time?
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When someone tells you something big, it’s like you’re taking money from them, and there’s no way it will ever go back to being the way it was. You have to take responsibility for listening.
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It occurred to me that if I were a ghost, this ambiance was what I’d miss most: the ordinary, day-to-day bustle of the living. Ghosts long, I’m sure, for the stupidest, most unremarkable things.
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Inching one’s way along a steep cliff in the dark: on reaching the highway, one breathes a sigh of relief. Just when one can’t take any more, one sees the moonlight. Beauty that seems to infuse itself into the heart: I know about that
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