To the extent that I had come to understand that despair does not necessarily result in annihilation, that one can go on as usual in spite of it, I had become hardened. Was this what it means to be an adult, to live with ugly ambiguities? I didn’t like it, but it made it easier to go on.
BANANA YOSHIMOTOIf you don’t say what you’re thinking, you end up lying when you really need to speak up.
More Banana Yoshimoto Quotes
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No matter where you are, you’re always a bit on your own, always an outsider.
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When someone tells you something big, it’s like you’re taking money from them, and there’s no way it will ever go back to being the way it was. You have to take responsibility for listening.
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I really believe that no matter how old people get, they tend to change in certain ways depending on how people treat them – they change their colors.
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When things get really bad, you take comfort in the placeness of a place.
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Why were we so far apart, even when we were together? It was a nice loneliness, like the sensation of washing your face in cold water.
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Why is it that everything I eat when I’m with you is so delicious?’ I laughed. ‘Could it be that you’re satisfying hunger and lust at the same time?
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What was important wasn’t the fireworks, it was that we were together this evening, together in this place, looking up into the sky at the same time.
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Once you’ve recognized your own limits, you’ve raised yourself to a higher level of being, since you’re closer to the real you.
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Someday, without fail, everyone will disappear, scattered into the blackness of time.
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Fate is a ladder on which you cannot afford to miss a single rung. To skip out on even one step would mean you’ll never make it to the top.
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No matter what, I want to continue living with the awareness that I will die. Without that, I am not alive.
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Good tea is eloquent enough, it turns out, to change a person’s mind.
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As I grow older, much older, I will experience many things, and I will hit rock bottom again and again. Again and again I will suffer; again and again I will get back on my feet. I will not be defeated. I won’t let my spirit be destroyed.
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Recognizing how totally ignorant you are is the only honest way to deal with people who’ve been through something traumatic.
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I should have told her at the time. I could have taken a deep breath, looked away, and forced myself to say it.
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