A choice of pains. That’s what living was all about.
AUDRE LORDEI wish to raise a Black man who will recognize that the legitimate objects of his hostility are not women, but the particulars of a structure that programs him to fear and despise women as well as his own Black self.
More Audre Lorde Quotes
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But the true feminist deals out of a lesbian consciousness whether or not she ever sleeps with women.
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I wish to raise a Black man who will not be destroyed by, nor settle for, those corruptions called power by the white fathers who mean his destruction as surely as they mean mine.
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If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.
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Guilt is not a response to anger; it is a response to one’s own actions or lack of action.
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Oppression is as American as apple pie.
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Our visions begin with our desires.
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Unless one lives and loves in the trenches, it is difficult to remember that the war against dehumanization is ceaseless.
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Poetry is not only dream and vision; it is the skeleton architecture of our lives. It lays the foundations for a future of change, a bridge across our fears of what has never been before.
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What I most regretted were my silences. Of what had I ever been afraid?
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You cannot use someone else’s fire. You can only use your own. And in order to do that, you must first be willing to believe that you have it.
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We do not have to romanticize our past in order to be aware of how it seeds our present.
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In the recognition of loving lies the answer to despair.
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Hopefully, we can learn from the 60s that we cannot afford to do our enemies work by destroying each other.
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We must wake up knowing we have work to do and go to bed knowing we’ve done it.
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Institutionalized rejection of difference is an absolute necessity in a profit economy which needs outsiders as surplus people.
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