Listening is being able to be changed by the other person.
ALAN ALDAIt makes it fun. When an actor plays a character, you want what that character wants. Otherwise it doesn’t look authentic. So I really want to defeat Jimmy – I mean Jimmy as the character.
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We’re highly social animals – I’m told by scientists that what makes us different from other animals is an acute social awareness, which is what has made us so successful.
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I wouldn’t live in California. All that sun makes you sterile.
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The one hour live debate in the West Wing that we did was one of the most exciting times for me on stage or on camera, because anything could go wrong.
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The other one, and probably an equal pleasure, is finding out how I can be helpful and then really being helpful.
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I play tennis non-obsessively. I seem to beat people I play a lot or half the time, so I guess I gravitate to people who are as bad as I am.
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All these things you expect meaning to come from, and sometimes it comes when you’re not expecting it.
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Don’t ever aim doubt at yourself. Laugh at yourself, but don’t doubt yourself.
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It isn’t necessary to be rich and famous to be happy. It’s only necessary to be rich.
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For a while in my teens, I was sure I had it. It was about getting to heaven. If heaven existed and lasted forever, then a mere lifetime spent scrupulously following orders was a small investment for an infinite payoff.
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I’m in the real world, some people try to steal from me, and I stop them, frequently, take them to court. I love a good lawsuit. It’s fun.
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Eventually, I found a radical way of thinking about listening. Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.
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I had never really wanted to be famous. Everyone is supposed to want to be rich and famous, but as a boy I never knew what rich was, and the first view I had of famous made me leery.
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For humans, flying isn’t magic, it’s physics.
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Selling out was frowned on, whereas now you can major in it at business school.
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Be brave enough to live life creatively. The creative place where no one else has ever been.
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