The difference between listening and pretending to listen, I discovered, is enormous. One is fluid, the other is rigid. One is alive, the other is stuffed.
ALAN ALDAI’m not trying to create some impression about myself. That doesn’t interest me.
More Alan Alda Quotes
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The best things said come last. People will talk for hours saying nothing much and then linger at the door with words that come with a rush from the heart.
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Nothing important was ever accomplished without chutzpah. Columbus had chutzpah. The signers of the Declaration of Independence had chutzpah.
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When I’m willing to let them change me, something happens between us that’s more interesting than a pair of dueling monologues.
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A taste; a painful longing. but the net is always too porous, and we are left with the sweet frustration of almost knowing, which is teasingly pleasurable.
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The one hour live debate in the West Wing that we did was one of the most exciting times for me on stage or on camera, because anything could go wrong.
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During the first day, curious at having outsiders among them, a long stream of inmates came over and talked with me.
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Almost everybody that’s well-known gets tagged with a nickname.
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Eventually, I found a radical way of thinking about listening. Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you.
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I’m not trying to create some impression about myself. That doesn’t interest me.
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This gets us back to that most pressing of human questions: why do people worry so much about other people’s holding beliefs other than their own?
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What you’ll discover will be wonderful. What you’ll discover is yourself.
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That last note, “in the same respect,” says a lot. As soon as you change the frame of reference, you’ve changed the truthiness of a once immutable fact.
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It’s always better to be wise than to be smart.
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I really don’t like plays or movies that service propaganda.
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I’m most at home on the stage. I was carried onstage for the first time when I was six months old.
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