People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDiffer though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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