As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDiffer though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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