How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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