The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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