Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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