Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWriting isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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