That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
AIMEE BENDERIt was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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