That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
AIMEE BENDERIt was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.
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