My children cause me the most exquisite suffering of which I have any experience. It is the suffering of ambivalence: the murderous alternation between bitter resentment and raw-edged nerves, and blissful gratification and tenderness.
ADRIENNE RICHTo work and suffer is to be at home. All else is scenery.
More Adrienne Rich Quotes
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In order to live a fully human life we require not only control of our bodies (though control is a prerequisite); we must touch the unity and resonance of our physicality, our bond with the natural order, the corporeal grounds of our intelligence.
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Can you remember? when we thought the poets taught how to live?
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Women’s art, though created in solitude, wells up out of community.
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A life I didn’t choose chose me: even my tools are the wrong ones for what I have to do.
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Nothing could have prepared me for the realization that I was a mother … when I knew I was still in a state of uncreation myself.
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[The poet] is endowed to speak for those who do not have the gift of language, or to see for those who – for whatever reasons – are less conscious of what they are living through.
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It’s as if, in the mother’s eyes, her smile, her stroking touch, the child first reads the message:’You are there!’
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I am always interested in the ways of scoring the sound of the poem, especially a poem with long lines.
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Women have always been seen as waiting: waited to be asked, waiting for our menses, in fear lest they do or do not come, waiting for men to come home from wars, or from work.
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Art, whose honesty must work through artifice, cannot avoid cheating truth.
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In America we have only the present tense. I am in danger. You are in danger.
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We might possess every technological resource… but if our language is inadequate, our vision remains formless.
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Waiting for children to grow up, or for the birth of a new child, or for menopause.
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Behind all art is an element of desire…Love of life, of existence, love of another human being, love of human beings is in some way behind all art.
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Whatever is unnamed, undepicted in images, whatever is omitted from biography, censored in collections of letters, whatever is misnamed as something else.
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