And it’s not hard to understand why in families across the land,
ADELE FABERRelated Topics
Anand Thakur
And it’s not hard to understand why in families across the land,
ADELE FABERWhen we acknowledge a child’s feelings, we do him a great service.
ADELE FABERFrom their struggles to establish dominance over each other, siblings become tougher and more resilient.
ADELE FABERLess time alone with parents. Less attention for hurts and disappointments. Less approval for accomplishments. . . .
ADELE FABERAnd once he’s clear about that reality, he gathers the strength to begin to cope.
ADELE FABERFrom their verbal sparring they learn the difference between being clever and being hurtful.
ADELE FABERContent in our connectedness / we are brothers and sisters / after all.
ADELE FABERNo one cares / who is better / who is worse / who has more / who has less.
ADELE FABERThe resentment that each child feels for the privileges of the other;
ADELE FABERYou can call on each other / and count on each other … / because each other / is all you have.
ADELE FABERAnd sometimes, from their envy of each other’s special abilities they become inspired to work harder, persist and achieve.
ADELE FABERThe whole world will tell them what’s wrong with them–out loud and often.
ADELE FABERAdd to that the envy that one child feels for the accomplishments of the other;
ADELE FABERWe have another obligation to our children, and that is to affirm their “rightness.”
ADELE FABERNo wonder they mobilize all their energy to have more or most. Or better still, all.
ADELE FABERKeeping our youth and yesterdays alive / Comrades with one history.
ADELE FABER