Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
ADAM PHILLIPSWe have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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We have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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We are children for a very long time.
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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You write to find out what you believe.
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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Transgression is a quest for solitude
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It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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