Your job is to preserve yourself, not to descend into their hole. It’s a relief when you arrive at this place, the point of absurdity, because then you are free, you owe them nothing.
ABRAHAM VERGHESEThe flip side of suicide is that it leaves a lingering question in the minds of the people who survived. Its like a cancer thats metastasized. The suicide is the cancer and the metastasis is all these people saying, Why? Why? Why?
More Abraham Verghese Quotes
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The rituals we use for marriage, baptism or inaugurating a president are as elaborate as they are because we associate the ritual with a major life passage, the crossing of a critical threshold, or in other words, with transformation.
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Geography is destiny.
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…guilt leads to righteous action, but rarely is it the right action.
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Patients know in a heartbeat if they’re getting a clumsy exam.
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I was angry with myself because I still loved her, or at least I loved that dream of our togetherness. My feelings were unreasonable, irrational, and I couldn’t change them. That hurt.
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No matter what ailed you, you went to see the barber surgeon who wound up cupping you, bleeding you, purging you.
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The crookedness of the serpent is still straight enough to slide through the snake hole.
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I think we can see how blessed we are in America to have access to the kind of health care we do if we are insured, and even if uninsured, how there is a safety net.
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We come unbidden into this life, and if we are lucky we find a purpose beyond starvation, misery, and early death which, lest we forget, is the common lot.
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It was all I had, all I’ve ever had, the only currency, the only proof that I was alive. Memory.
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We must believe that ministering to others will heal our woundedness. And it can. but it can also deepen the wound.
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I’ve always wanted to write a book like that, with the sense that you are contributing to the discourse in middle America,
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The greatest sin is not finding it, ignoring what God made possible in you
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Pray tell us, what’s your favorite number?”… “Shiva jumped up to the board, uninvited, and wrote 10,213,223″… “
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I had an uncle who, looking back, was probably not the most-educated physician around but he carried it off so well.
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