Still, it’s an apt metaphor for our profession. But there’s another kind of hole, and that is the wound that divides family.
ABRAHAM VERGHESELife, too, is like that. You live it forward, but understand it backward. It is only when you stop and look to the rear that you see the corpse caught under your wheel.
More Abraham Verghese Quotes
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By visiting patients in their home, by helping them come to terms with their illness, I could heal when I could not cure.
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The world turns on our every action, and our every omission, whether we know it or not.
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The rituals we use for marriage, baptism or inaugurating a president are as elaborate as they are because we associate the ritual with a major life passage, the crossing of a critical threshold, or in other words, with transformation.
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A discourse that begins at a book club in a living room, but then spreads. That is meaningful to me.
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I was taking care of people my age who were dying. The constant feeling, hearing from them, was that life is transient and can end very quickly, so don’t postpone your dreams.
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To be around someone whose self-confidence is more than what our first glance led us to expect is seductive.
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Be careful! Travel expands the mind and loosens the bowels.
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How we treat the least of our brethren,… that’s the measure of this country.
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The key to your happiness is to own your slippers, own who you are, own how you look, own your family, own the talents you have, and own the ones you don’t.
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He was teaching me how to die, just as he’d taught me how to live.
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My VIP patients often regret so many things on their deathbeds. They regret the bitterness they’ll leave in people’s hearts.
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When I wake to the gift of yet another sunrise my first thought is to rouse him and say, I owe you the sight of morning.
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We must believe that ministering to others will heal our woundedness. And it can. but it can also deepen the wound.
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Pray tell us, what’s your favorite number?”… “Shiva jumped up to the board, uninvited, and wrote 10,213,223″… “
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There are moments as a teacher when I’m conscious that I’m trotting out the same exact phrase my professor used with me years ago.
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Rituals, anthropologists will tell us, are about transformation.
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As she bent over the child she realized that the tragedy of death had to do entirely with what was left unfulfilled.
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…guilt leads to righteous action, but rarely is it the right action.
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God will judge us, Mr. Harris, by–by what we did to relieve the suffering of our fellow human beings. I don’t think God cares what doctrine we embrace.
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The crookedness of the serpent is still straight enough to slide through the snake hole.
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Pray tell us, what’s your favorite number?
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The most important innovation in medicine to come in the next 10 years: the power of the human hand.
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The flip side of suicide is that it leaves a lingering question in the minds of the people who survived. Its like a cancer thats metastasized. The suicide is the cancer and the metastasis is all these people saying, Why? Why? Why?
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And then by the end of the third year they completely lose that ability, partly because we teach them the specialized language of medicine.
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Certainly when I got to medical school, I had role models of the kind of physicians I wanted to be.
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Geography is destiny.
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