It is the task of a lifetime. We’ll leave much unfinished for the next generation.
ABRAHAM VERGHESEMy VIP patients often regret so many things on their deathbeds. They regret the bitterness they’ll leave in people’s hearts.
More Abraham Verghese Quotes
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Your job is to preserve yourself, not to descend into their hole. It’s a relief when you arrive at this place, the point of absurdity, because then you are free, you owe them nothing.
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If we are fortunate, we ‘beat’ the cancer. If not, we are posthumously praised for having ‘succumbed after a long battle.’
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I was angry with myself because I still loved her, or at least I loved that dream of our togetherness. My feelings were unreasonable, irrational, and I couldn’t change them. That hurt.
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I was taking care of people my age who were dying. The constant feeling, hearing from them, was that life is transient and can end very quickly, so don’t postpone your dreams.
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You are an instrument of God. Don’t leave the instrument sitting in its case, my son. Play! Leave no part of your instrument unexplored. .
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I’ve always wanted to write a book like that, with the sense that you are contributing to the discourse in middle America,
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This is my life, I thought…I have excised the cancer from my past, cut it out; I have crossed the high plains, descended into the desert, traversed oceans, and planted my feet in new soil
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She felt the familiar calmness of an emergency, but she understood the falseness of that feeling, now that it was her life at stake.
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At times, with today’s advances in technology, medicine in rural America looks very like it does in America’s cities, but the variety of practices is enormous.
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Sandip Roy has broken new ground in this tale of the modern Indian family. A lovely read
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Empathy can be replaced by cynicism.
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He was teaching me how to die, just as he’d taught me how to live.
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We must believe that ministering to others will heal our woundedness. And it can. but it can also deepen the wound.
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You live it forward, but understand it backward.
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Rituals, anthropologists will tell us, are about transformation.
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