There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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