Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
TUTU DESMONDReligion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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