Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
BELL HOOKSThe greatest movement for social justice our country has ever known is the civil rights movement and it was totally rooted in a love ethic.
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If we want a beloved community, we must stand for justice.
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Once you do away with the idea of people as fixed, static entities, then you see that people can change, and there is hope.
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The people I love, I’m committed to loving for the rest of my life.
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Love is an action, never simply a feeling.
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Sometimes people try to destroy you, precisely because they recognize your power – not because they don’t see it, but because they see it and they don’t want it to exist.
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When we choose to love, we choose to move against fear, against alienation and separation. The choice to love is a choice to connect, to find ourselves in the other.
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Honesty and openness is always the foundation of insightful dialogue.
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Since loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other and it takes time to know each other.
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Whenever women struggle with breast cancer and face better care than ever, that’s feminism.
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No black woman writer in this culture can write “too much”. Indeed, no woman writer can write “too much”. No woman has ever written enough.
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You can only realize change if you live simply. Once people want enormous excess, you can hardly do social change.
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The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.
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Forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be transformed?
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What we cannot imagine cannot come into being.
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Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.
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