We were exiles from reality that summer. We were refugees from ourselves.
CHRIS CLEAVEThe reason why I love people, and writing about them, is because they don’t always respond with hate and anger. If they did I wouldn’t have a story to tell. Who wants to know about someone who was brutalised and became brutal? I’m interested in the exceptions.
More Chris Cleave Quotes
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I’m really interested in people’s decisions.
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If I can’t write it would be as if I died.
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Psychiatry in this place is like serving an in-flight meal in the middle of a plane crash. If I wanted to make you well, as a doctor, I should be giving you a parachute, not a cheese-and-pickle sandwich.
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If I could not smile, I think my situation would be even more serious.
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The reason why I love people, and writing about them, is because they don’t always respond with hate and anger. If they did I wouldn’t have a story to tell. Who wants to know about someone who was brutalised and became brutal? I’m interested in the exceptions.
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Even for a girl like me, then, there comes a day when she can stop surviving and start living. To survive, you have to look good or talk good. But to end your story well– here is the truth– you have to talk yourself out of it.
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My paternal grandmother drove ambulances during the regional Blitz, in Birmingham.
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Horror in your country is something you take a dose of to remind yourself that you are not suffering from it.
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I am a woman built upon the wreckage of myself.
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I could not stop talking because now I had started my story, it wanted to be finished. We cannot choose where to start and stop. Our stories are the tellers of us.
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Yet war doesn’t end with armistice, it only ends with forgiveness and reconciliation.
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And thus love makes fools of us all.
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Nobody has the time to sit down and explain the first world from first principles.
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I’m not happy with just repeating myself.
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My maternal grandmother was in London during the Blitz. Indeed, the man she was dating before she met my grandfather was killed beside her in a cinema, in 1941, when a bomb came through the roof – a tragedy in which she herself was badly wounded.
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