And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
SYDNEY J. HARRISMany people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can’t be comfortable with others.
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A winner knows how much he still has to learn, even when he is considered an expert by others; a loser wants to be considered an expert by others before he has learned enough to know how little he knows.
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The best thing you can give children, next to good habits, are good memories.
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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Atheism, on the other hand, is as unyielding and dogmatic about religious belief as true believers are about heathens. It tries to use reason to demolish a structure that is not built upon reason.
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Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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Those who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
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If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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