but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
JOHN IRVINGAll I say is: Let us leave les folles alone; let’s just leave them be. Don’t judge them. You are not superior to them – don’t put them down.
More John Irving Quotes
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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Watch out for people who call themselves religious; make sure you know what they mean – make sure they know what they mean!
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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YOU LET ME DROWN!” Owen said. “YOU DIDN’T DO ANYTHING! YOU JUST WATCHED ME DROWN! I’M ALREADY DEAD!” he told us. “REMEMBER THAT: YOU LET ME DIE.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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The way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
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I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes – toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
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And when you love a book, commit one glorious sentence of it-perhaps your favorite sentence-to memory. That way you won’t forget the language of the story that moved you to tears.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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My life is a reading list.
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The former stewardess glared at her ex-pilot husband as if he had been speaking, and thinking, in the absence of sufficient oxygen.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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