There is no straightforward negotiation with a four year old.
JOHN IRVING…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
More John Irving Quotes
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But I often think that so-called glamorous people are just very busy people.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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A sentence boiled in her, but she could not yet see it clearly.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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You can’t learn everything you need to know legally.
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I have no respect for the right-to-life position, though I have every respect for an individual who says, “I could never have that procedure, I could never see a film or read a book about that procedure.” It doesn’t bother me if people feel that way.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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YOU LET ME DROWN!” Owen said. “YOU DIDN’T DO ANYTHING! YOU JUST WATCHED ME DROWN! I’M ALREADY DEAD!” he told us. “REMEMBER THAT: YOU LET ME DIE.
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And when you love a book, commit one glorious sentence of it-perhaps your favorite sentence-to memory. That way you won’t forget the language of the story that moved you to tears.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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