Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
JOHN IRVINGYou’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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No adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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You can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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Patriotism is not necessarily defined as blind devotion to a president’s particular agenda – and that to dispute a presidential policy is not necessarily anti-American.
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Keep passing the open windows.
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You only grow by coming to the end of something and by beginning something else.
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There is no straightforward negotiation with a four year old.
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My brain is sending poison to my heart.
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Our memory is a monster; you forget it – it does not.
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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It happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
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No one but me ever put a hand on me to feel that baby. No one wanted to put his ear against it and listen…You shouldn’t have a baby if there’s no one who wants to feel it kick or listen to it move.
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Thus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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