The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
JOHN IRVINGThe main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
JOHN IRVINGI don’t begin a novel until I have written, not just the last sentence, but usually, as a result thereof, many of the surrounding final paragraphs, so that in addition to knowing what happens, I know what the voice is.
JOHN IRVINGPeople are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
JOHN IRVINGThe way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
JOHN IRVING…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
JOHN IRVINGThus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
JOHN IRVINGThis is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
JOHN IRVINGBe serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
JOHN IRVINGPeople only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
JOHN IRVINGThey all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
JOHN IRVINGI have a friend who says that reviewers are the tickbirds of the literary rhinoceros-but he is being kind. Tickbirds perform a valuable service to the rhino and the rhino hardly notices the birds.
JOHN IRVINGMy brain is sending poison to my heart.
JOHN IRVINGThe gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
JOHN IRVINGNo adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
JOHN IRVINGJust when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
JOHN IRVINGHow we love to love things for other people; how we love to have other people love things through our eyes.
JOHN IRVING