They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
JOHN IRVINGYou’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
More John Irving Quotes
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
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I suppose I’m proudest of my novels for what’s imagined in them. I think the world of my imagination is a richer and more interesting place than my personal biography.
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The lie, of course, is more interesting.
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He wished he could arrange a maiming as a kind of moral lesson
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As it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
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No one could have fathomed what a life he’d led, for it was chiefly a life lived in his mind.
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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I’ve always been slow but I’m even slower now. I’m more into the waiting, or I guess I’m more patient about the waiting.
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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And when you love a book, commit one glorious sentence of it-perhaps your favorite sentence-to memory. That way you won’t forget the language of the story that moved you to tears.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!
JOHN IRVING