Anger or bitterness toward those who have hurt you will block your path to higher ground. You can have anger toward people or you can have freedom from people, but you can’t have both.
VERNON HOWARDPseudo-mysticism seeks to evade reality; authentic mysticism wants to live it.
More Vernon Howard Quotes
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To change what you get you must change who you are.
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A perfect method for awakening is to examine the results of our daily actions. If they are harmful, we know we need more consciousness.
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When you are genuinely strong, you neither attack nor defend and so retain your energy.
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Suppose you stand on a high place to enjoy the beauty of the sparkling sea below. You need do nothing to create that beauty; you need only BE IN THE SAME PLACE WHERE IT IS, and let nature do the rest. So it is with the inner life.
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One false idea is that anyone can hurt you. Events can ruin your reputation, take your money, mistreat you, revenge itself upon you, deceive, betray, abandon you, but cannot hurt you.
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Just be honest with yourself. That opens the door.
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Change is never a loss – it is change only.
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An obvious fact about negative feelings is often overlooked. They are caused by us, not by exterior happenings. An outside event presents the challenge, but we react to it. So we must attend to the way we take things, not to the things themselves.
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A false path must be tensely and angrily defended by those it has deceived.
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When told that man lives in delusion everyone thinks of himself as the exception; hence his delusion.
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See human nonsense as nonsense and save years of trying to make sense out of it.
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Society is like a crowd in carnival costumes with everyone fearful that others will see through his disguise.
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We are slaves to whatever we don’t understand.
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Always walk through life as if you have something new to learn, and you will.
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Bitterness is the outcome of a wrong mental movement – the attempt to force external events to conform to internal fantasy. The cure is to see fantasy as fantasy, which will reveal it as neither necessary nor rewarding.
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