Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
SYDNEY J. HARRISThe severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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The most important thing in an argument, next to being right, is to leave an escape hatch for your opponent, so that he can gracefully swing over to your side without too much apparent loss of face.
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A loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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You may be sure that when a man begins to call himself a realist he is preparing to do something that he is secretly ashamed of doing.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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All significant achievement comes from daring from experiment from the willingness to risk failure.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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