Everyone carries the weight of WWII with them in their recent family history, and yet it is rarely spoken about within families, because veterans and survivors don’t tend to talk.
CHRIS CLEAVEIf I could not smile, I think my situation would be even more serious.
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At this point in time the war [ WWII] is close enough to still feel hotly personal to a writer, yet far enough away so that jingoism and heroics are no longer required.
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I know that the hopes of this whole human world can fit inside one soul.
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This thing with being lovers, it isn’t like being married.
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Even for a girl like me, then, there comes a day when she can stop surviving and start living. To survive, you have to look good or talk good. But to end your story well– here is the truth– you have to talk yourself out of it.
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I’m not happy with just repeating myself.
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Still shaking, in the pew, I understood that it isn’t the dead we cry for. We cry for ourselves, and I didn’t deserve my own pity.
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We leave it up to books and movies to talk about WWII on our behalf.
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We no longer need to show people being brave: instead, we can examine how they became brave. We can assume that they didn’t start out that way. If we allow that they started out just like us, then their journey into courage becomes both more fascinating and more impressive.
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If I can’t write it would be as if I died.
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I think all of us are intrigued to imagine what we as individuals would become, if we were ever tested as hard as that golden generation was.
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Yet war doesn’t end with armistice, it only ends with forgiveness and reconciliation.
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A scar is never ugly. That is what the scar makers want us to think. A scar does not form on the dying. A scar means, I survived.
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Sometimes we don’t notice that someone is being brave, because they are only doing something that seems quite easy for us.
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If I could not smile, I think my situation would be even more serious.
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To be well in your mind you have first to be free.
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