Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
JOHN IRVINGI have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
More John Irving Quotes
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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…there was no more safety to be found in love than there was to be found in a virus.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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I’ve always been slow but I’m even slower now. I’m more into the waiting, or I guess I’m more patient about the waiting.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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All I say is: Let us leave les folles alone; let’s just leave them be. Don’t judge them. You are not superior to them – don’t put them down.
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In the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
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I suppose I’m proudest of my novels for what’s imagined in them. I think the world of my imagination is a richer and more interesting place than my personal biography.
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I have no respect for the right-to-life position, though I have every respect for an individual who says, “I could never have that procedure, I could never see a film or read a book about that procedure.” It doesn’t bother me if people feel that way.
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Life is serious but art is fun!
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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I’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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Maybe television causes cancer, Garp thinks; but his real irritation is a writer’s irritation: he knows that wherever the TV glows, there sits someone who isn’t reading.
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